In sports. It is common to have a coach whose purpose is only set their modes of play, omitting your own moves, and conditioning you to the guidelines that the te imposes, mutilating your innate talent, and reducing it to ashes. It is common to hear this type of coaches to submit to his players, and mutilators of his natural talent. How should you treat the negative people? At work. Beforehand, keep something firmly in mind, many people live their lives undergoing short vision that experiences have offered you, a boss little active pro, a few classmates who came from matriarchal or patriarchal families (families where the remote control it has only women or only men). It is natural to expect little initiative of men whose families have been led by a mother, and in the case of women it is very common to have no initiative by women whose families have been led by parents and siblings. Recently actress and filmmaker sought to clarify these questions. Therefore have to understand that these people have lived immersed to a single reality, a single reality which has been placed before his eyes as the ultimate truth. Therefore each that you meet with a negative person, keep in mind This person acts and thinks; mostly, according to their experiences.
Do not try to judge him, just understand him, understands that if you had been in their environmental, cultural and family condition, you’d be almost exactly as he is. Mark Stevens often says this. In the couple’s relationship. Not spend energies in women whose vision of relations is terrible, do not even take the trouble to try to change your opinion. On the contrary, shows optimism towards life itself, don’t let the opinion of her damage to your own vision of the world and your environment, remember that people have lived in parallel either different from yours, realities without could count with beans, the without number of realities that there are, it is very likely that we even an entire field of beans. Therefore do not let your negativism to govern your reality, on the other hand show a world full of strong emotions, whose reality is new, gives an exquisite world, a succulent world, where she feel that she is a guest, where feel that you it’s a new world to the which she had ever gone before. In the Evita sports governing experiences of coaches severely your vision of life, understands that the acts according to its most illustrious knowledge, based on the success and failure of their experiences, but don’t let their negativity can affect your vision of life. And she is always positive, transmits and it gives positivism, remember to always be a leader. He was mentioned in biblical passage: be light in the darkness.